Marriage Troubles

Marriages can be one of the most amazing things two people can enter into during their entire lifetime. It can bring tremendous amounts of joy and happiness to ones life but it comes with a lot of responsibilities and a lot of trust. Every marriage has its problems and they aren’t avoidable and sometimes it can actually be healthy to fight because it gets two people communicating and will bring things up that you would otherwise just try to bottle up and bury deep down inside you. If it goes to far though it can be vary harmful to the relationship and can be very hurtful to each of the partners. This is why you should always be open with one and another if he/she loved you enough to say I do then they should love you enough to listen about what is on your mind or what has been bothering you. But you can’t start to nag each other about all of the little things that bug you about each other. A lot of the time there is one big issue that you are refusing to talk about that is causing you to take notice of all the things that are annoying you. This is why you can’t complain about everything to each other because eventually one will get tired of listening and push you away. Most Marriages biggest concern is that there spouse has gotten to be so bored, nagged, frustrated, or so concerned with getting to the next big thing like I previously talked about that they have turned to cheating. This is about as low as it can get for a marriage but there are several ways to avoid it. This is a list of the Top 20 signs of a cheating spouse or the potential for it:

20 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1. Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
2. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
3. There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically nonexistent.
4. Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
5. You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
6. You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
7. You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.
8. Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
9. Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
10. Your mate is working longer hours at work.
11. Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
12. You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.
13. Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
14. You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
15. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
16. He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
17. You can't even get your mate to fight with you.
18. You feel as if you are being avoided.
19. Your partner abandons religious faith.
20. Your spouse seems more secretive.

Not all of these will be seen in all people but they are the top visible signs. Now all of these are avoidable and all of these are reversible you just have to know how.