Help with Relationships and marriage

In this day in age it is getting exceedingly harder and harder to carry on a lasting and most of all loving relationship that will actually last for ever. But for most people out there this is what we are all looking for and that is a great goal to have but as I'm sure you know it’s becoming harder to achieve it. This is due to several reason that all build up into one really big problem. This one major problem is our nature as humans to always want more or the next big thing and a lot of people get hurt in the pursuit for this. They get hurt because the other partner is not new and may not be going in the same direction you are going but this doesn’t mean that you need to leave them behind. You should try to bring them along with you and make and experience out of it together instead of going out on your own and eventually realizing that you got what you wanted or made it to were you wanted to be but you did it without the one you wanted to have it all with because you got caught up in the chase. That is one of the other problems with a lot of relationships when they are just starting out and a potentially big problem for people in a long term marriage; the chase is the most exciting part of any relationship because both parties are getting to know each other and passion is at an all time high. This is when people go through what is referred to as the cutesy bootsey phase when things like nicknames and little insiders are formed. Because this is the most exciting portion people try to always have it and that will cause big problems in your marriage or relationship. In a marriage a little flirting can escalate quickly because the feeling of being in the game or chase will arise quickly. This can be very damaging and again create a lot of problem in your marriage. It can all be avoided by simply doing exciting new things with your partner when things start to feel to mundane for you. This is another way of involving the other in new experiences and keeping things fresh for the two of you.