Help with Relationships and marriage

In this day in age it is getting exceedingly harder and harder to carry on a lasting and most of all loving relationship that will actually last for ever. But for most people out there this is what we are all looking for and that is a great goal to have but as I'm sure you know it’s becoming harder to achieve it. This is due to several reason that all build up into one really big problem. This one major problem is our nature as humans to always want more or the next big thing and a lot of people get hurt in the pursuit for this. They get hurt because the other partner is not new and may not be going in the same direction you are going but this doesn’t mean that you need to leave them behind. You should try to bring them along with you and make and experience out of it together instead of going out on your own and eventually realizing that you got what you wanted or made it to were you wanted to be but you did it without the one you wanted to have it all with because you got caught up in the chase. That is one of the other problems with a lot of relationships when they are just starting out and a potentially big problem for people in a long term marriage; the chase is the most exciting part of any relationship because both parties are getting to know each other and passion is at an all time high. This is when people go through what is referred to as the cutesy bootsey phase when things like nicknames and little insiders are formed. Because this is the most exciting portion people try to always have it and that will cause big problems in your marriage or relationship. In a marriage a little flirting can escalate quickly because the feeling of being in the game or chase will arise quickly. This can be very damaging and again create a lot of problem in your marriage. It can all be avoided by simply doing exciting new things with your partner when things start to feel to mundane for you. This is another way of involving the other in new experiences and keeping things fresh for the two of you.

Marriage Troubles

Marriages can be one of the most amazing things two people can enter into during their entire lifetime. It can bring tremendous amounts of joy and happiness to ones life but it comes with a lot of responsibilities and a lot of trust. Every marriage has its problems and they aren’t avoidable and sometimes it can actually be healthy to fight because it gets two people communicating and will bring things up that you would otherwise just try to bottle up and bury deep down inside you. If it goes to far though it can be vary harmful to the relationship and can be very hurtful to each of the partners. This is why you should always be open with one and another if he/she loved you enough to say I do then they should love you enough to listen about what is on your mind or what has been bothering you. But you can’t start to nag each other about all of the little things that bug you about each other. A lot of the time there is one big issue that you are refusing to talk about that is causing you to take notice of all the things that are annoying you. This is why you can’t complain about everything to each other because eventually one will get tired of listening and push you away. Most Marriages biggest concern is that there spouse has gotten to be so bored, nagged, frustrated, or so concerned with getting to the next big thing like I previously talked about that they have turned to cheating. This is about as low as it can get for a marriage but there are several ways to avoid it. This is a list of the Top 20 signs of a cheating spouse or the potential for it:

20 Warning Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1. Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
2. Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
3. There is considerably less intimacy in your relationship. Your sex life is practically nonexistent.
4. Your spouse has a low self-esteem.
5. You notice your spouse has a sense of confusion about self.
6. You spouse has become lazy, especially around the house.
7. You can't get your spouse to communicate with you.
8. Your spouse gets very defensive if you mention infidelity or affairs.
9. Your spouse is suddenly more attentive than usual.
10. Your mate is working longer hours at work.
11. Your spouse is dressing nicer, looking nicer.
12. You notice charges on credit card statement that don't make sense.
13. Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
14. You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
15. Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
16. He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
17. You can't even get your mate to fight with you.
18. You feel as if you are being avoided.
19. Your partner abandons religious faith.
20. Your spouse seems more secretive.

Not all of these will be seen in all people but they are the top visible signs. Now all of these are avoidable and all of these are reversible you just have to know how.

Help with Relationships and marriage

I know it is hard to patch up a marriage or a relationship that is on the rocks and continuing with the cheating scenario and knowing how to fix it I would like to give all of you a list of resources to do so. So with a lot of research done I have found these to be very useful and they have a great wealth of knowledge for you no matter what you marital status is or what problems you are facing in your relationship.

You Can Stop Your Break Up, Divorce or Lovers Rejection...Even If Your Situation Seems Hopeless! This is one of the hottest ebooks out there right now and the author is so sure of it he posts a couple of videos explaining it to you himself
The Magic of Making Up!

How to Save your Marriage from a known psychiatrist. A great ebook with alot of extras
including personal email consulting for you personal situation.
Save Your Marriage Today

1000 questions for couples, what you need to know about the one you are with. this is brought to
you by a very well known artist who has been seen on endless radio and TV shows including Oprah!
1000 Questions

Discover how you can save your relationship and bring back the love of your life. Gives you alot of info and a nice 4 step process
Bring Back the Love of Your Life

500 lovemaking tips and secrets about how to increase passion and intimacy. No matter what you think this is a major key in keeping a healthy relationship. Bonus is that it is also from the same great author as 1000 q's so you know its good.
500 Tips to Increase Passion and Intamicy

These are all great places to look for help with relationships and marriage. they all touch on different matter and are some of the most popular ebooks out there. I hope these help you out tremendously and I will try to find some more for you along with continued blogs to support relationship and marriage problems.